Both versions of the book are live!

Today, I was reviewing my old emails and came across one from my previous editor and publisher. She was an amazing person who is no longer with us, but I’m blessed to have known her. She was another person who influenced and encouraged my passion to write.

As I was reading the email titles, I noticed the words “Both versions of the book are live!” And for some reason, I thought this should be June’s blog message. Reading that title instantly excited me because this email was from my first book ever published. The first book I spent numerous hours writing, editing, updating, and gathering feedback. The first book that if I am honest, I never really expected to publish. The first book I learned how to listen to the Spirit and be committed every week to write. The first book!

You see…when the Lord first told me to start writing. I was like ok, Lord. In my mind, I was writing to journal or create short messages even though He told me books. I enjoyed every week partnering with the Holy Spirit; though, never really knowing what the finished product would look like. But then, that day when my first draft copy arrived. I think I was silently excited and thought this is really happening. I am publishing my first book.  

My siblings in Christ,

The message is “Both versions of the book are live!” If the Lord has asked you to do something. Do it! Because He will always provide the resources for your path. If you quit, you will never experience the fullness of God’s path for your life. And neither will the people who were meant to be impacted by the gifts given to you.

I implore you if He asked you to do something. Recommit to His will and begin taking steps within that path. Take courage and have heart, so you too can experience “Both versions of the book are live!” It means you have accomplished what the Lord has asked you to do. Imagine the glory He receives and the outpouring your gifts will do for other people (and you).

Philippians 1:6, “And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.”

Have you witnessed love from a distance?

Recently I was able to witness a loved one’s engagement and it was absolutely beautiful. I was able to witness from a distance the showering of love. One friend fixed her tiara to make sure it was on straight, while others rushed to shower her with hugs. Others looked on with smiles of joy for this surprising occasion.

And so...I got to witness love from a distance.

Other times I have seen love from a distance at birthday parties. Most recently was my youngest birthday party. I remember watching her tear up as she opened gifts because the gifts had significant meanings. I remember her hugging people. Some of whom she had not seen in a while.

And so...I got to witness love from a distance.

I have seen fathers walk their children to school and mothers embrace their children when picking them up. I notice siblings playing and laughing while gently bumping into each other as a sign of love. I have watched husbands and wives hold hands while secretly talking about something only God knows.

And so...I got to witness love from a distance.

I have witnessed friends cleaning up their friend’s house after they hosted an amazing gathering. I have watched friends and family pay for each other’s meals. I have witnessed the persistence of people wanting to get the perfect gift for a loved one and excitement that comes from watching them open it.

And so...I got to witness love from a distance.

I could go on and on about the many ways I have witnessed love from a distance. But what I really wanted us to remember is LOVE IS ALWAYS PRESENT because Jehovah is always present.

My siblings in Christ,

We miss out on so much because we are constantly moving so fast to the next thing. So fast, that we never have time to enjoy what is right in front of our eyes. Every day the Lord blesses us with love not from a distance but up close.

Learn to enjoy love up close by walking in nature or having tea with a friend. Riding bikes with your kids or taking a coffee break with a friend at work. Host a small game night or barbecue for friends. YouTube a new recipe and invite your family to dinner. Cook or burn a meal for your spouse. Try knitting, swimming, kayaking, or Pickleball to meet new people. Whatever it is, do the love things up close.

 Life is too short to only experience it from a distance.

 God wants you to experience LOVE UP CLOSE!

You Are Not A Disappointment

 A few weeks ago, I was watching a show with a brother and sister having a conversation. The phrase mentioned by the sister to the brother is what stuck with me. She said, “You are not a disappointment.”

Before we continue let’s review some definitions for disappointment. Dictionary.cambrige.org states disappointment as the “unhappiness or discouragement that results when your hopes or expectations have not been satisfied, or someone or something that is not as good as you had hoped or expected.” Vocabulary.com describes it as “a feeling of dissatisfaction that results when your expectations are not realized or an act (or failure to act) that disappoints someone.”

Some synonyms from Thesaurus.com use words like defeat, disaster, failure, mistake, obstacle, and setback. I definitely have experienced emotions of defeat after a long workday or when a relationship outcome did not go the way I wanted. I have been disappointed in some of my choices as a young lady and as an adult woman. I have known the disappointment I have felt towards the Lord when I know He is all powerful but chooses to allow a circumstance to play out. I have been disappointed in people and myself numerous times, but on that day the phrase of disappointment hit me hard. It did not hit in a way that led me to remember past mistakes or experience shame. What I felt when God pointed out this phrase was relief.

No matter how I might feel about my choices or what someone’s feedback says about my choices. My Father reminded me that HE WAS NOT DISSAPPOINTED IN ME!

Our Father does not look at us as failures or mistakes. Our Father does not feel dissatisfaction or loose hope when our decisions lead to a dark road. And even when our allegiance (lack of trust and obedience) to Him is shaky. Our Father’s love will never change.

My sibling in Christ, I hope you go throughout the rest of your life knowing. You are “very good” (Genesis 1:31). You are “fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:13-14). You “will never be separated from the love of God in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:37-39).

YOU ARE NOT A DISSAPPOINTMENT TO GOD!

 YOU ARE HIS UNIQUE HANDIWORK AND HIGHLY VALUED!

MOVE

Move

 Some people are not getting what they want, but stay, because they are comfortable where they are.

What do you think about the above statement? Do you know someone that needs to move on, should move on, and has signs to move on, but stays because they are comfortable.

 Are you this person?

Dictionary.com describes comfortable as “being in a state of physical or mental comfort; contented and undisturbed; at ease:” I think most people can relate to the feeling of comfort. Maybe being around a close friend brings you comfort. Eating from your favorite donut or cookie shop gives you comfort. Seeing the same cashier at the grocery store or knowing your online item has not sold out can be comforting.

But when does feeling comfortable become a delusion or deception? When is our comfort really hiding our fear of moving on? When is our comfort causing stagnation and missed opportunities to experience a new season? When is our comfort becoming an act of figuratively closing doors?  When does our comfort not really look like comfort, but an excuse to avoid, disobey, and surrender our plan for God’s plan?

 Are you comfortable right now? Yes, I am talking to you.

Is the comfort you are experiencing from God’s plan or your plan?

Did God ask you to do something, but you chose to avoid, disobey, and stay with your plan?

You see…the Lord’s comfort is different than the world’s comfort. Our comfort is usually reliant on selfish intentions within safe lanes, which will not require us to give up too much.  

God’s comfort comes because it is people-focused, outside of our natural abilities, and usually something we would have never wanted to do.

Our Father’s form of comfort is to bring peace through Jesus Christ because He knows we are not capable of doing that very thing without His help. He also knows we tend to feel a false sense of security in the world’s comfort. A good example is the phrase “job security.” There never was and never will be a method for job security. Now before you get upset, I am not saying being professional and doing your job well will not create opportunities. What I am saying is our TRUE SECURITY does not come from believing we can earn a safe passage. Our true security, our true refuge, our true safe haven, and our true eternal comfort comes from the Lord.

There is only one secure option and that will always be the sovereign Lord’s plan, not mine and not yours.

 So, I will ask you again. Are you comfortable? Have you done what has been asked of you?

Or are you still making excuses and closing divine appointed doors to stay comfortable?

 If not, then you need to MOVE (change, act, turn, shift) now.

Jeremiah 29:11(NIV) “ For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Read the entire 29th chapter of Jeremiah (or the entire book).

Mud Pit

Where would you go without Him?

What can you do without Him?

Who are you without Him?

John 15:5 (NIV) says “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

Good day my sibling in Christ,

I do not know about you, but this week was long and draining. Each day added a new hill to climb or a muddy pit with no good shovel to dig myself out. This week was a huge turn of events from last week. Last week was chaotic but I had peace throughout each day.

So, what changed? So, what did I do differently? Did I miss something?

Nothing.

Nothing.

And no.

Both last week and this week, I prayed and spent time with God. I surrendered each day to the Holy Spirit’s leading and thanked God for who He is and what He does. Yet the weeks were quite different. This week each day took more effort than the day before. Each day was filled with longer breaths and controlled frustration. And yesterday, I ended my workday with a headache.

But...you know what? There is one similarity with both weeks.

Jesus was present for the word says “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

To be fruitful does not mean there will not be long days and nights. To remain in Christ is not a sunny vacation on a beach or a spa day. To remain in Him and Him to remain in you requires trust, obedience, and full surrender.

A bad moment, day, or week does not mean Christ was not present with you. On the contrary, the fact that you made it through and onto the next demonstrates His presence lives in and around you.

So, the next time you are having a difficult day in a mud pit without a good shovel. Remember you have everything you need as long as you remain in Christ. For He declared not only will He remain in you, but that you would BEAR MUCH FRUIT!

What might look like a mud pit to many in the natural is the Lord in the supernatural strengthening you to do remarkable things. For strong arms are what carry, comfort, empower, encourage, lift, and lead.

Boredom and Peace

Happy New Year 2024 to the person reading this message. It has been an entire year since I posted my last message on this blog. My hope and commitment is to post a message once a month. This commitment is not for a particular reason but only to allow God to provide you (and I) a word which will keep our focus on Him.

Will you join me?

Boredom and Peace

Have you ever heard someone say, “I’m bored.” I’m bored and have nothing to do and nowhere to go. I wish I had something to do. My life tends to be a cycle of routine full of boredom. This person may have even said, “My life is boring.”

Perhaps this person, is you?

The words boredom and peace crossed my mind a while ago because I heard a few people describe their life as boring. This notion of being bored is a real thing but I wonder are we missing the freedom to be bored (at peace)? Are we missing a unique meaning and experience in being bored (stillness)?

Stay with me.

If we look up the word bored at Dictionary.com describes it as “feeling weary because one is unoccupied or lacks interest in one's current activity.” Now, I agree some things we do could possibly be boring. Perhaps you are bored with watching sports or a weekly event you attend to support your friend. There can be a long list of things which fit this description, but I would like to remind you that your perception and reaction are two different responses.

How many times were you bored, but then you or someone else was able to change the experience? You ever attend an event and want to leave in the first 15 minutes but then 3 hours later you were glad you stayed?

You see our problem is not boredom but how we allow our perception (which is not always accurate) to shape our response. An example is people who tend to watch other people live instead of enjoying the life God gave them. Why? Because of the perception that their life is so much better.

Listen. All of us experience the emotion of being bored. I do every time I take training for work or watch a certain sport (I won’t say which one). But my life is not defined by boring moments. If anything, I am grateful for the peace of not being busy all the time. I am thankful to be surrounded by drama-free people. I love that I am good watching TV and laughing on the couch with only Jesus and I. I have learned to make myself laugh. I have learned if I am truly bored then I can change my response and stimulate myself in certain situations. Sometimes, I appreciate the slowness in the day so I can breathe and think.

As you finish this message and allow the Lord to speak to you. Think about is this you. Do you think your life is boring? The Lord didn’t create you to always have a full calendar, constantly on the go, and living a facade on social media (or in-person) while your soul is dying off screen. The Lord created you to enjoy the freedoms of life which He planned and purposed for each individual person.

It is never boring to have a life full of peace and quiet. It is never boring to have absolutely nothing to do on the weekend. It is never boring to make time only for you and God.  

I hope you hear me when I say you are not boring. Your life is NOT BORING! You have been created and molded by the Lord almighty. You are fearfully and wonderfully made, and the Lord has never made anything boring. Everything He has and will continue to do is extraordinary.

Now try to live your life as your life, and not through the lenses of others.

Umbrellas

A little over a year ago, I was watching a show and there was a line which reminded me of the Lord. In this scene the lady was going to a doctor’s appointment to discuss certain options for her situation. Her male friend followed her to keep an eye on her. When she came out of the doctor’s appt she saw him and said, “Are you following me?” He replied, “No I only wanted to bring you an umbrella. It is going to rain today.” They go back and forth and eventually he says, “Nothing you do is going to change me or anyone else who really loves you.”  She replies, “You love me?”

In that moment I got teary-eyed because isn’t this how our Lord feels about us? Reminding us that nothing we do separates His love from us. NOTHING! I was also reminded that during my rainy days God always brings me an umbrella. We might not always want to talk to God, but regardless, there He is watching over us to make sure we have what we need for the day.

Are you aware of the days the Lord brought you an umbrella because it was going to rain? Have you noticed our Father knew you were going to have a rough day and there He was to provide you with comfort?

I wanted to thank God for always having an umbrella ready for my rainy days. I am so glad I have a friend that follows me around even when I don’t want Him there. And I’m grateful for a Father whose love will never change towards me. I pray through all our struggles we are reminded “The righteous person may have many troubles but the Lord delivers him from them all.” Psalms 34:19

May the Lord lift your spirits if you’re feeling down and may we become more aware of the umbrellas God brings to us in our time of need.

P.S. If you look up synonyms for umbrella you will find “shelter, protect, shade, and guard.”

Buckets and Boxes

Good morning!! 

A few weeks back I was talking with the Lord about how the world tries to put every human being in a bucket or box. No matter what role we play both personally and professionally there is always someone saying this is why she fits in this bucket or this is why he falls into this box. An example are the themes introvert and extrovert. You can read the various definitions but some define extroverts as being “outgoing, fun-loving, friendly and talkative.” Introverts can be defined as “reserved, withdrawn, and introspective with small circles.” Then there are also ambiverts “which are considered both extroverts and introverts.”

Now I am not saying there is anything wrong with understanding the behaviors of a person, but I do think many things meant for good are also causing people to be placed in a box or bucket, which in turn puts limits on the possibilities of who God created us to be. 

When God created man He didn’t say I am going to create introverts and extroverts. He created what was good (Genesis) without putting boundaries on our ability to be unique individuals. PERIOD!

 As human beings we keep developing “tools” which are supposed to assist our understanding of personalities and interactions without the thought of how helpful is this?

 As I continue to read more articles about strength themes, personality themes, leadership themes, and the list goes on. Every article has a way of saying if you exhibit these traits then you’re this. If you don’t encompass these skills then you’ll never be that.

Look…

The reason for this message is a reminder our Father does not fit in a specific bucket or box. He is not an introvert or extrovert. He is not social or anti-social. He is not a rating 5 based on our work review of Him. He is God! God of many characteristics found in the Bible. And the Bible says we are made in His image not the world’s view.

His image  incorporates……

Love (Devoted), Faithfulness (Consistent), Mercy (Tenderness), Grace (Beauty), Humor (Joyful), Power (Qualified), Strategist (Planner), Friendly (Approachable), Knowledgeable (Awareness), Wisdom (Good Judgment), Encourager (Builder), Directness (Sincerity), Patience (Forgiving), Gentleness (Compassionate), Peace (Unity), Generosity (Considerate), Leadership (Shepherd, Head, Commander) and many more. 

So…the next time you feel someone is trying to box or bucket you; remember our Father is not limited by those things and you are His child so what does this make you? It makes you UNIQUELY PURPOSED with LIMITLESS ABILITIES!  

 Psalm 139:13-14 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

You Are More Than Just

You Are More Than “JUST”

Exodus 4:10 says Moses said to the Lord, “Pardon your servant, Lord. I have never been eloquent, neither in the past nor since you have spoken to your servant. I am slow of speech and tongue.”

(In 2021) I was given the word “Just.” Now not in the way you think like just as in being trustworthy, true, or honorable but the total opposite. If you review a few antonyms for just you will find words like inequitable, unfitting, and unsuited. If you dig deeper unsuited means “not right or appropriate, not suited for the job.”

Let us think more about the phrase “not suited.” Did Moses think he was suited for the job even though God was with him? How many times do we feel “not suited” for situations we are asked to participate in or lead? Situations we know deep in our spirit we should be involved in but too afraid to try because we believe we are just not suited.

How many times have you said, “Well I can’t because I JUST started?” I am unable because I just don’t have the abilities like the previous leader. I won’t get the job because I only have an Associate’s degree. I would help but I’m just not the right person. I want to help but I just know they can do it better.

Unfortunately, I have walked in a mindset of just. A mindset of disbelief that everything about me is not enough. Not enough to do my job, not enough to raise my daughters, and not enough to become an author. Because I felt I was just not enough.

Sometimes this is my default to walk in a “just” aka “limiting” posture. I’ve said silently or out loud God I would, but I just don’t have enough experience. Father, I tried but I am just one person. Lord, I believe you but if you could just send someone else. When I choose to display the just attitude then I am limiting the Father instead of unleashing His Power!

Remember Moses comment “Lord I have never been eloquent.” Where did Moses obtain this belief from? Who told Moses he wasn’t eloquent? It certainly was not the Father because the Lord reminded Moses “who made his mouth and that he would help him speak and teach him what to say.” 

My sisters and brothers,

The Word of God does not say we are just human beings. The Word of God says we are fearfully and wonderfully made. We are more than conquerors. We can do all things through Christ. Nowhere in these scriptures does God call us “not right, not appropriate and unsuited.” He calls us His craftsmanship. He says we are made in His image. And nothing and I mean nothing “can separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Click here to watch a brief video with more details on You Are More Than “JUST”

“I am More Than Just”

“You Are More Than Just”

“We Are More Than Just”

R.E.S.T

R.E.S.T

“Ready to Enter a State of Time out!”

When you hear the word rest what are some thoughts that come to mind? Do you think of sleep, especially uninterrupted sleep? Do you think of being able to sit in peace without phone calls or requests from your children? Do you think of peace in your soul where it is calm and free of the day’s worries? Do you think of family vacations far away from the chaos of the world?

What does rest mean for you? Do you know the importance of rest and the impact it has when it is not sought after on a consistent basis? Rest is more than an eight-hour night of sleep. It is more than a 7-day cruise. It is more than a day free from the children’s school and sports activities. Rest is the freedom to relax, unwind, and flow throughout your day (maybe not every day but more frequently).

Unfortunately, our inability to understand the ways of rest is impacting our capacity to be effective. Not just for everyone else but more importantly our temple is being crippled because we are not resting His way.

The culture we live in has made “busyness” an idol. Busyness in some respects is considered as fruitful and appears to be a form of success. If you’re not overwhelmed or have a huge task list, then you must be lazy right? Wrong!

Busyness is a thief stealing (taking) from your rest. Busyness is the distraction to being a vital part/member in the body of Christ. Busyness is what keeps you up at night. Busyness is the anxiety you are experiencing throughout the day. Busyness is the unwanted friend lying to you that there is no other way but to keep pushing through your large to-do list. Busyness is draining you of joy and motivation to work on God things.

Busyness, busyness, busyness! What do we do with all this busyness? Well…let’s thank God we have the power to control our busyness. Let’s acknowledge our temples deserve better. Let’s move towards Jesus believing His yoke is light. Let’s lay down our burdens. Let’s trust His plan. AND LET’S PREPARE TO ENTER HIS REST

R.E.S.T

“Ready to Enter a State of Time out!”

Matthew 11:28-30 (New International Version) 28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” 

Matthew 11:28-30 (The Message) 28-30 “Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” 

Click here to watch my brief video on Resting His Way!

Share The Load

Hello!

As I was walking/jogging this morning the phrase “Share the Load” came to mind. So, I will begin with this question for you; do you share your challenges, goals, and fears with Jesus? I mean really share or do you try to tackle everything alone?

Sisters and Brothers,

I don’t need coffee, sugar, or medication to do what I do. When I am at my BEST; it is because I am sharing the load with God, instead of trying to carry it alone. Before I start jogging, I request help from the Lord, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. I say Father, you know my knee is going to start hurting so I will control the breathing part, you control the protection while I run, Jesus keep my knee from hurting and Holy Spirit please give me the power to push through any workout.

Did you understand what I just said? When I am at my BEST, it is because I ASK FOR HELP, so I’m able to do above and beyond what is typically not possible in human strength. I am not an author because I have great ideas. I am an author because I share the load. I am the tool that writes, while the Holy Spirit provides the words and scriptures. When I choose to share the load, it is so much easier for me to write, encourage, lead, do insane workouts, and most importantly experience the peace of God.

So, I ask again, do you understand what it means to cast your cares? To ask for help? To expect that God will show up for you in all your needs?

Whether it be work, personal relationships, or desires; what would happen if you would share the load with Jesus? I don’t know about you, but I accomplish so much more when God is involved.

Have a Healthy weekend

Unhealthy Gaps!

Good morning!

How is everyone today? I hope everyone was able to rest this past weekend or at least do something you enjoy. My oldest daughter texted me and said, “Mom I miss the fireworks at auntie’s house.” I told her “Me too.” We used to drive down and my sister would have a gathering with food and games; then dad, stepdad, and myself would set the sky ablaze. I mean would we safely have a firework display.

You know what I find interesting is since I could remember I have never been afraid of fireworks. I’ve never been afraid because my uncle and dad introduced them to me at a young age. I was always fascinated at what one little object could do in the sky (or ground). Fast forward to today, we don’t light fireworks like we used to, and I feel a little fear in my spirit that was never there. It’s there because I no longer am consistent with lighting them (involved). It’s kind of like these little gaps of time is placing concern, which was never there before. 

Unfortunately, sometimes our walk with God, is like my firework experience. When we’re first introduced to Jesus, were excited and can sense His overwhelming love for us. We were so excited that perhaps we shared it with family members or friends. We were so consumed by Him that we wanted to learn more and experience more of Him. Matter of fact, do you remember the last time, that you were so sure of who God is that NO ONE COULD TELL YOU DIFFERENT?

But you know what happens, we begin to let days, weeks, months, and years go by. Our commitment to being with, listening to, and desiring His love has now become spaced out among other priorities. And where there used to be a strong faith in Jesus, we now struggle with fear and doubt. We now have allowed little gaps to fill our mind with inappropriate thoughts. We have allowed the hole which once was filled by Jesus is now filled by anxiety, frustration, doubt, and fear.

Sisters and Brothers,

I don’t know your current battle or even questions you have for and about the Lord; but I do know the more time away from God, allows for little unhealthy gaps to seep into our life. It allows fear and misunderstandings to override what we once believed to be true. Personally, I am trying to be consistent throughout the day in spending time with God, because I do believe Jesus walked on water; however, when I allow gaps in my faith to seep in, then I find myself sinking just like Peter.

Love you guys and Have a Healthy Wednesday

John 15:5-9 (NIV) “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If you do not remain in me, you are like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.”

Civil (Courteous/Polite) Conversations:

Happy Tuesday,

Hope your week is off to a great start. I am grateful for this past Sunday; I got to hear one of my favorite worship singers and pastor preach. It really made my day! And this is the day, the Lord has made, so let us be glad and rejoice in it!

Yesterday, I got to have a conversation for an hour, with an adult in-person. I wasn't intentionally trying to break the social distancing mandate but was picking up items from this person. We talked about various topics from family, jobs, how we were raised, the world today, and our thoughts for the future. During this conversation, this person shared a few political views, which I didn’t agree with; but I love the presence of the Holy Spirit. Their views didn’t affect our ability to still have a “civil” conversation. I just listened and allowed them to state their view; however, after I drove off, I talked to the Lord about it. He reminded me that we were able to be civil, because the Holy Spirit allowed me to be at peace. The Holy Spirit doesn’t have a combative nature, but He is a peacemaker. Did I want to respond with my views? Of course, but I was at peace with just being okay with my beliefs, and not needing to prove my side.  But don’t get me wrong, I have my combative days too!

Children of the Lord,

I’ve said this before, and I will say it again. You don’t have to win everyone argument. You don’t have to be right. The Lord doesn’t call us to win arguments, He calls us to be at peace with one another. Are you at peace?  

Romans 12:14-18 (NLT): Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. LIVE IN HARMONY WITH EACH OTHER. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all! Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.

He is Still Working!

Good morning afternoon!

It has been awhile, but I hope all of you and your family, are still healthy and mentally strong. Praying continued protection and wisdom for all of us. Praying for those, which are battling with unseen opponents, that you will have victory by the Lord’s grace.  

This past Sunday, I took my usual long walk on the Polaris strip. I passed Kroger’s, Maurice’s and what used to be the Dress Barn store. I passed Big Lots, JoAnn’s, and what used to be the Arhaus furniture store. I passed Party Place, Hallmark, Old Navy and Best Buy, which is still open; I guess electronics are essential. Then I passed by the closed Panera. Sometimes, I walk a little slower by this Panera, because this is just one of my meeting places with God. Yes, you can meet God anywhere, but Him and I have shared some special moments at Panera, and I miss that.

Anyhoo, I make the right turn and head on to Lowe’s, and you know what I noticed? I noticed the beautiful flowers, which were on the sale displays. I’m sure they have been out for a while, but for some reason, I noticed them that day. And because of those flowers, my hope tank was refilled. It was refilled, because I was reminded that after the rain, the FLOWERS WILL BLOOM AGAIN! After the winter storms, the GRASS WILL BE GREEN, and the TREES WILL BE FULL OF LEAVES! Those little flowers reminded me, that God doesn’t stop working, because Covid-19 showed up. There is no enemy, no tragedy, and no pandemic bigger than our God. He is the great I AM!  

Praying the Lord will restore (and maintain) our hope, during these dark and difficult times.

Psalm 30:1-5 (NLT): I will exalt you, Lord, for you rescued me. You refused to let my enemies triumph over me. O Lord my God, I cried to you for help, and you restored my health. You brought me up from the grave, O Lord. You kept me from falling into the pit of death. Sing to the Lord, all you godly ones! Praise his holy name. For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime! Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning.

You Don't Need It!

Happy Saturday,

This morning I came to my favorite place and ordered my usual bacon, egg white, and cheese sandwich with a café latte. I sat down at my favorite seat and started to unpack my gear. As I was unpacking, I noticed my earbuds were not in my bag. I looked through the bag, at least three times. I almost started to freak out, because I have a ritual before I write. Before I write, I usually always listen to worship music; just to get my spirit in the right place. But I didn’t have my earbuds, and I kept thinking what I am going to do? I can’t write, without listening to my tunes (which is crazy talk).

In that moment, the Holy Spirit reminded me, that regardless if I have music or not, He was still going to be present in my writing. He reminded me that He is always present when I am doing the Lord’s will. He reminded me again…that “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13

Queens,

I didn’t need my self-reliance ritual to write and you don’t either. You don’t need you for the interview, you just need the Holy Spirit. You don’t need you for creating a new plan at work, you just need the Holy Spirit. You don’t need to always have a plan for tomorrow, you just need the Holy Spirit. Parents you don’t need another parenting book or advice, you just need the Holy Spirit. You don’t always have to know the right words, because like our Father told Moses “Now go. I will help you speak. I will teach you what to say.” Exodus 4:12 (NIV).

So my thoughts, the next time you’re looking for your earbuds (self-reliance), rest in knowing all you need is the Holy Spirit.

Have a Healthy Weekend!

He Sees You!

Good morning Victorious Peeps,

I am sitting at my favorite place on the planet; that’s right Panera. I was supposed to be editing my book, but decided to work on something else. During this time, I listened to the song “You know my name.”  I don’t know what it is, but I love knowing, even if no one else knows me, the Lord does. He knows what I am capable of doing, even when I think I might fail.

Have you ever been asked to do something, which you’ve never done before? Have you ever been encouraged to try something, that has nothing to do with your prior career (or hobby) experience? Has someone came to you for creative ideas (even though, you think you don’t have a creative bone in your body). Has someone ever trusted you with something important, and they have only known you a hot second?

How do you respond? Do you decline the offer or are you honored that someone sees the greatness in you?

Remember the Lord knows your name and He knows all your capabilities and your future victories (and valleys). This morning, I was watching a video and the person quoted Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

The Lord says “HE KNOWS THE PLANS HE HAS FOR YOU,” which means HE SEES YOU! He sees all the possibilities and paths, that will help you grow, stretch, and bring all gifts to light.  

Therefore, the next time someone SEES YOU and ask for help; don’t let your fear or lack of understanding of your inner power, sway you from tackling their ask. The Jesus in you is always greater than the fear in you.  

Have a Healthy Weekend!

2 Timothy 1:7 “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”

Stop Making Me Wait!

Happy Saturday,

Stop Making Me Wait! 

About 10 years ago (2008), the Lord started speaking to me in a way, that I couldn’t understand. Things, I hadn’t noticed in years, were now more visible (unhidden) to me. He would point out women to me in the store, or at restaurants. He would point out, that a cashier was hurting, and to pray for her. He would remind me, to pray for the lady with the child in the grocery store, which was throwing a tantrum. He even made me more sensitive, to the things I watch on TV; to the point that I felt like, why in the world am I so saddened (affected) by the lives of total strangers? And then, He dared to tell me, women were my passion. Huh?

Now, I don’t know about you, but most of the time, when God tells me to do something, it is NEVER anything I want to do.  So, during this process, I remember saying out loud to God, NO!

No God, I don’t want to get involved, with whatever you’re showing me. Like for real Lord, I am good with going to church, paying my tithes, and participating in the young adult group. All that other stuff was for people in ministry (and if we are truthful, many Jesus followers believe this).

At that time, I was good. I was reading my Bible and loved learning about Jesus. Why was He, trying to get me involved with anything else? Now fast forward a few years later (2011-2012). I don’t know what happened, but my attitude of rejection (refusal), turned into affection (love), and a passion to help women, see themselves as God sees them.

Why am I sharing this? Because I need you to move past your fear, so the folks in need of what you have, can be blessed. During my refusal period, I shared with a few folks, what God was showing me because I honestly didn’t understand.  A pastor told me “Lee, if God is telling you to do it, then do it. He could get someone else, but He called you!” Just a few years ago, when I was having doubts about my books. Another person said, “Lee, God gave you the passion to write, because someone is waiting on the story you have to tell.” 

Listen Queens,

I have decided, not to pester you about Vision statements this year; instead I am going to say STOP MAKING ME WAIT! Sadly, too many of us, think it is the Pastor, the Bishop, the First Lady, or Worship leader’s job, to be the Church. WE ARE ALL THE CHURCH! While you continue to be ok, with just doing the bare minimum; someone is waiting to receive, what God asked you to do 5 years ago.

If you have a true passion for something, which YOU KNOW, YOU SHOULD BE DOING. DO IT!

I don’t care how many others have done it, I don’t care about the challenges you’ve drummed up in your head, I don’t care how hard you think it will be.  While you continue, to let fear be the Boss of your life, someone is waiting on what God gifted you to do.

Just imagine, where would we be, if Jesus had decided to wait and not died on the cross!

STOP MAKING THEM WAIT! 

2 Timothy 4:7-8 (NIV) “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.”

There’s more coming….as well as EXPECTED!!

Happy Saturday,

I hope everyone had a decent week and will be able to enjoy the beautiful weather (at least in Central Ohio).  Over the last few weeks, my thoughts have been all over the place. Regarding work, relationships, and future writings. There was a thought I felt the Holy Spirit revealed to me for kicking off my websites 2020 series; therefore, I thought I would share it with you.

The statement was “There’s more coming….as well as EXPECTED!!

Now, I don’t know about you, but this statement is saying a lot (in a good way).  The reason the Lord said “there is more coming” is because He reminded me of promises. Promises He has been making to me, over the last few years. One of those promises, was He said there would be surprises in my life. The interesting thing is God said this about 4-5 years ago and SURPRISES (unexpected) continue to happen in my life. In addition to the surprises, I’ve also realized the Lord has expected a little more from me.

Queens,

I want you to know that I believe “There is more coming” for you. I believe the Lord is good and loves His children. I believe our God wants to give good gifts to His children. I believe He wants you to overcome any obstacle you face, and He desires for you to have peace. But I also believe in the midst of His goodness/faithfulness to give; He also EXPECTS more from us as well. When I say more, I don’t mean in the physical. I don’t mean more nights at church or for your ministry. I don’t mean more hours spent at work. I don’t mean more conversations with folks, you don’t really want to talk to. I don’t mean making more commitments with family and friends.

I mean, more of you to know Him, so that you are changed inwardly. More of you to decrease so He can increase in you. Ephesians 3:20 (MSG) says, “God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams!” He can do “FAR MORE” than your request in the physical (finances, health, relationships, home, work); however, just imagine what He could do for you (inwardly), if you were willing be MORE SUBMISSIVE to Him. Yes, giving up control (surrendering) is a scary thing but “There’s more coming as well as EXPECTED!!”

It is okay to surrender to the Lord. He is the safest fortress, rock, and confidant I know.

Have a Healthy Weekend!

What Should I Call You?

Happy Friday!  

I hope you had a nice week or at least attempted to (we can’t control everything). Anyhoo, last night a friend and I, tried a new dance class. And I must say, it was total awesome sauce. Though, it was a little different than our normal instructors, it still provided a fun environment. My favorite thing the ladies did at the end of class, was have us say affirmations. They started every affirmation with calling us Queens! I love that word and it happens to be a title for one of my web pages. They had us call ourselves beautiful and strong. We also spoke it to the other people in the class!! If you’re interested in their group, they are called “Divine Impact Fitness.” Now onto the message.

How many of you actually speak good things about yourself, to yourself? Well, I do! I didn’t always say nice things to Lee, but Jesus told me years back, that I was a Queen and shouldn’t act any less than that; therefore, I have decided to like everything about me (issues and all). My 2nd book has a section which talks about women speaking good things about themselves; it says “How many of us speak the scriptures of God’s goodness and love, yet are subjecting ourselves to the darkness daily? We cannot claim to have self-worth (love), when we constantly allow people (and ourselves) to penetrate our minds, in such a way that we no longer love ourselves appropriately.

Please be encouraged, not offended by my next point. I love me (in a healthy way) and I refuse to call myself anything but good things. I am not fat, ugly, or stupid and neither are you. If you believe negative things about you, then that is what you will become. I also want to remind you, that it is disrespectful to the Lord, when you disrespect His handywork, by calling yourself negative names. Jesus calls you friend, loved, redeemed, fearless, protected, free, and a conqueror. Anything less, is not Kingdom mentality!

 Have a Healthy Weekend and Be Kind to yourself!

 Proverbs 139:14 (NIV) “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well..”

Don’t Stop – Just Modify

Happy Tuesday!!,

Before I jump into the message, I wanted to quote a song I heard this morning. “You’ve been Better than Good to me!”  Yes, the Lord has (and is) better than GOOD TO US!  I know this is just a social media post, but as the preachers say, “Give God the Praise” because “He is Better Than Good to Us! The song is called “Lord You are Good,” sung by Todd Galberth.  Check out the link. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mztyl7oIlRY

This morning, my alarm clock went off at 5am to get up for boxing, but I said to myself, not today; I turned the alarm off and reset it for 6:30am. I drifted off into a sweet sleep of FOUR MINUTES, before I jumped out of bed and said NO! I am going to boxing. The morning before I was at boxing, then did hip-hop class in the evening; therefore, my knee was hurting from yesterday’s workouts, but that didn’t stop Lee, I just modified my technique. 

Sometimes we think because we’re tired, or something is painful, then we should quit. Or perhaps, something was not as successful as we hoped or things are taking longer than planned, so we quit. Maybe, you even think many years have passed by, that you missed your mark and God has moved on, so you quit.

Do you remember the story of David and Goliath? This young man fought a GIANT! Do you also remember they provided him armor and a helmet to fight? But, David was unable to use these tools, so he modified and chose to use his sling and five stones. If we fast forward to the end, then you know David defeated Goliath. He did this with God and modifying his technique. Perhaps, the story might have went differently, if David would have fought in armor, he’d never trained in before. 

 My Sisters,

Some of you, are wearing armor that doesn’t fit you, nor was it ever meant for you to put on. But don’t quit, modify your technique and fight. The Lord never guides you somewhere without the proper tools (strategy) to finish. Usually the issue is, we think we need to add more of our (and others) “stuff” to God’s plan.

I encourage you, to talk to God and ask Him to lead you through your current situation. Ask him, if you’re wearing inadequate armor (co-dependency of unhealthy things or people, unwise counsel, repeated attempts of dead-end actions, inability to change, inability to move by Faith). You need to remove this faulty armor, as it is holding you back from the next step in life. 

But DON’T QUIT, JUST MODIFY YOUR APPROACH, by putting on the right armor which is the “Full Armor of God.”  Ephesians 6:13-20

Read the entire 1 Samuel 17