Where do you belong? In Community!
This past weekend I met with a group of women I first connected with 15 years ago during a Bible study at my previous church. We try to meet at least once a year. In the beginning, one of the women would collect our prayer requests and praise reports on a weekly basis. This helped us stay connected. Later, it turned into us gathering for a meal at one of the ladies’ homes. One of the women graciously turned all those prayers and praises into a printed book for us.
I need to find mine—I know it’s in the basement somewhere. But what does this have to do with October’s blog? It has to do with community.
Over 20 years ago, when I moved to Columbus, Ohio, the Holy Spirit impressed on me to pray for good women to be in my life. At the time, I had no idea why I would need to pray to be surrounded by women, but nonetheless, I prayed. And do you know, our faithful Lord has put a fortress of amazing women around me for over 20 years! I am not kidding—I meet someone new every year.
Now, most of the relationships aren’t necessarily about being long-lasting as much as they are about divine connection and the season we get to enjoy each other. But I’ll tell you, every year I have met a new woman or two. Every year, I’ve been drawn to someone for more than just an occasional text. Every year, I’ve had the pleasure of a woman speaking a word over me. Every year, I’ve experienced a solid community that the Lord has increased for reasons so FAR BEYOND MY UNDERSTANDING OR IMAGINATION.
Why has the Lord blessed me to experience so many different personalities, each leaving a lasting impression through our interactions?
Why has He sent women who have made me laugh like a sister or showered me with love like a mother?
Why have I been blessed to gain a new sister in Christ year after year?
I have one biological sister whom I love dearly, but the Lord has expanded my siblings throughout the years.
Why?
Because community is important. Community makes up the body of Christ. The whole.
Have you ever prayed for God to expand your “community”?
Have you ever desired to be part of something bigger than the people in your house or your workplace?
Have you truly experienced what it means to be part of a loving community that listens to you, prays for you, celebrates with you, and yes—redirects you when necessary?
If you have not experienced the community of the Lord, I encourage you to pray for Him to bring His community into your life. But also ask Him to help you receive and nurture what He entrusts to you.
Because God’s community comes in assorted flavors. God’s community has many gifts. God’s community is not focused on comparison, but on unity for the Kingdom.
So…how about you pray to become more involved and more connected as God expands and extends His community in your life?
Romans 12:4-6 (MSG)
In this way we are like the various parts of a human body. Each part gets its meaning from the body as a whole, not the other way around. The body we’re talking about is Christ’s body of chosen people. Each of us finds our meaning and function as a part of his body. But as a chopped-off finger or cut-off toe we wouldn’t amount to much, would we? So since we find ourselves fashioned into all these excellently formed and marvelously functioning parts in Christ’s body, let’s just go ahead and be what we were made to be, without enviously or pridefully comparing ourselves with each other, or trying to be something we aren’t.